Why Coping Skills Aren’t Enough for Deep Emotional Patterns
Many of the people I work with are doing everything they’re “supposed” to be doing, like using grounding techniques, journaling, and naming triggers in real time. However, they still find themselves feeling that drop in their stomach when they read a text, or searching for reassurance in ways that are hurtful. They know this is anxiety, but struggle with flowing through the anxiety. It’s confusing, and it feels discouraging at times. Because you know you’re doing the work, but fear you’re not going anywhere.
You’re Not Crazy, You’re Activated! (Understanding Emotional Triggers and Attachment Responses)
We’ve all been there - the moment where you send a text, they don’t respond, your stomach drops, and your brain starts building a case (they’re pulling away, I said too much, I am too much). This is how it always starts… and then the shame rolls in. But let me tell you… you’re not crazy! Your nervous system is activated!